The idea of marraige is tainted by the government's involvement in your personal commitment to eachother.?

The meaning and purpose of marraige has been distorted over the ages. When you are in a relationship, you give to your significant other because you WANT to..from your heart. You're already "married" at a certain point when you have a strong connection/ love relationship/ sense of commitment with your lover. If at some point things change and you, your lover, or both of you don't want to anymore, the government's hand in your marriage proceeds to FORCE you to do what you what you simply CHOSE to do in the first place. Government's bogus involvement in making YOUR personal marraige "legal" is ridiculous..like many other invalid purposes of government. This government-imposed institutionalization of marraige is often abused and is ultimately about creating more revenue for the government...not about us.