Is it possible to love someone or something without being attached to that same person or thing?

any attachments that you may have will end up causing you some sort of pain or grief or suffering sooner or later. is All the yogis will tell you to rid yourself of all your attachments after and only after you are able to do that you wil be able to reach an enlightenment. i am engaged to the woman of my dreams and i love her with all my heart and she has a 4 year old boy who isnt my blood son but i am the closest thing to a father that he has had un years we all love each other very very much its just i have been struggling with a drug addiction latley and my fiance has been distancing herself from me which is understandable but after a year of struggling with my addiction i am finally getting cleaned up and making progress and now she is starting to get real strict about she says she loves me and i do beleive that but she also talks about dumping all of her attachments in this world. that would mean she would have to get rid of her attachment to me her fiance but also her 4 year old son is it possible to love someone with all your heart but at the same time have no attachment to them